@ Ray, def with the wingman. But i feel you will do better than me. Was with a crew last night, almost all foreigners in my click walked away with a chick (4 dudes, one had his girl with him so he didnot count). Since i am of azn decent, i walked away with two hands (a few numbers but meh).
Perks of being a foreigner (white face-ish), is that the girls did not give a damn (the ones who i seen there). They kept eyeballing each foreign male, no matter how ugly, mute or just a prop with a drink in one hand in the corner. I never seen anything like this before (first time out in chengdu clubbing). While me, dancing on stage and having fun.
So waht am i saying? i have no clue, i had 3.5 hours of sleep and all i remember how i worked to get a girls number for a night, while a tall bald clean shaven foreigner (the prop in the corner with a drink looking for prey and i need a new haircut) got the same chicks number in less than 2 min. Funky how being round eyes might help at the local club scene heh.
Oww i saw a few bjj students there, did not expect that. I had a blast last night!! But yea, stay strong Lucy. Open your circle and go meet new people, if logistics allow you to.