@ Brendan, totally! Been busy lately… So last night one of my students (a san shou fighter that trains at the sports uni) told me in very broken English, ‘i can get any girl, you want to f*ck a girl? her?’ I just laughed and had to decline 20 times for him to get the point. I guess *Its* that easy heh.
@ Lucy, men are charming at initial meeting. Some can be genuine and some can have schemes. Its only with experience that you can build your defense. Asian American women ALL have this girl shield defense (men call it something different). Build it up and learn to play hard to get. We men like something to work towards to. Cumbersome at times, but worth it in the end (builds a better relationship).