The whole culture of *number* is a bad thing. Objectifies women and sees them as ‘pit stops.’ I rarely use that b*tch word now a days. Unless its in a disdainful way to describe someone. Infact, friends of mine who are happily married rarely used the b-word, even when they were single. I guess its the priorities of what each man wants in a woman.
While, like Ray described, the Don Juans in the world respect women with a passion. That is why they are loved and liked by women, while envied by men. Alas, China is a different world and its a ‘gold rush’ for those looking for ass.